It is said that Freud’s dying words were, "What do women want?" I’ve wondered about that question, and I have always come back to the same answer: "We want you to Shut Up and Lick!"  And we don't want that tiny tip of tongue action... we mean SHUT UP AND LICK.

So what does that really mean? Women want men, our lovers, to embrace them totally. Badmimi believes that the most healing caress a lover can make is by placing their tongue upon a woman’s most intimate and secret place. To “get” who and what we are. at our core. We need this kiss of reverence and complete acceptance. For only when we trust a lover’s willingness to literally taste who we are, will the flames of desire ignite and open the door to passion, creativity and birth. Once women have opened hearts and bodies and are no longer shamed by the cultural suggestions that our bodies are ugly and dirty and smelly can the healing process begin. There is nothing more healing than for a lover to embrace a women’s most sacred womb with a deep and passionate kiss.